Connected
Couples Retreat

Rekindle Your Love and End the Conflict.

October 22-25, 2026 | Ladysmith, Vancouver Island

Are you ready to break free from painful patterns?

If you don't take action, your relationship may continue to suffer from . . .

Repetitive Arguments
having the same fight over and over, leaving you exhausted

Roommate Mode
emotional distance can leaving you feeling more like roommates than partners

Doubt and Frustration
wondering how much longer you can keep doing this?

Isolation
Feeling alone in your marriage, as if you're living separate lives with no way forward

Unresolved Pain & Anger
living with feelings that weigh heavily on your heart

Ineffective Therapy
feeling like past therapy attempts never got to the root of the issue

What You’ll Experience at Connected Couples Retreat…

You’ll be in a small-group setting where you’ll gain a wealth of practical skills you can immediately use to build a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. Luana provide’s a safe and supportive environment where couples can:

Receive Real-Time Expert Coaching:

Led by the only Relational Life Coach and Trauma Specialist on the West Coast, I will guide you through personalized strategies to address your unique challenges.

Enjoy Luxury Accommodations:

Stay at a stunning waterfront property, where comfort and tranquility set the stage for your transformative experience.

Rekindle Your Love:

Improve communication, learn modern tools, rediscover the passion and intimacy that brought you together in the first place and create a lasting bond.

Learn Effective Somatic Tools:

Experience hands-on techniques that help you un-trigger and re-regulate during conflict, allowing you to communicate more effectively and resolve issues with compassion and understanding.

Connect With Other Couples:

Share your experiences and learn from others who are on a similar journey, fostering a sense of community and support.

Savour Gourmet Meals:

Delight in farm-to-table meals prepared by a world-renowned chef, with all meals included during your stay, allowing you to focus on each other without distractions.

"Working with Luana has absolutely transformed our relationship! We sought her out after hearing Terry Real talk on an podcast about “normal marital hatred” and wanting to work with someone who shares that honest, growth-minded approach.
Doing counselling together created a level of vulnerability, accountability, and teamwork that feels incredibly powerful. Luana brings a balance of fierce compassion while holding us accountable to patterns that no longer serve us, and helping deepen the security, openness and connection in our relationship."

~ Christi and Jake. British Columbia

I understand how disheartening it is to be stuck in the same painful patterns with your partner.

With her expertise in relational therapy and somatic healing, Luana provides the tools and support you need to overcome conflict and nurture a loving connection.

10+ Years Experience

Certified in Relational Life Therapy

“We’ve tried couples therapy before and didn’t get far, so we were skeptical but this was different. The mind-body connection and nervous system focus helped us get to the root of our issues and really understand what we actually do when we’re both flooded. For the past 3 weeks, my partner has stepped up in ways I didn’t even imagine and I actually feel hopeful for the first time in a long time. The skills we learned that weekend are making a difference for our whole family.”

Three easy steps to become the love story everyone admires.

Choose Your Room
Book your oceanfront view and enjoy morning sunrises over the water

1.

Register Online
Only 5 spots available—don’t miss out.

2.

Embrace Transformation
Arrive ready to learn the skills you wish you learned a decade ago.

3.

Choose Your Room For The All-Inclusive 4 Day Couples Retreat

Oceanfront Luxury Suite


King Bed


Private Luxury Ensuite


All Meals Included


$6000 cad per Couple


Forrest Retreat Room


Queen Bed


Private Bathroom


All Meals Included


$5500 cad per Couple


Ocean Blossom Room


Queen Bed


Private Bathroom


All Meals Included


$5500 cad per Couple


Seaside Serenity Room


Queen Bed


Shared Bathroom


All meals included


$5000 cad per Couple


Oceanview Oasis


1 Queen Bed, 2 Double Beds


Private Bathroom


All meals included


$5500 cad per Couple


Garden View Room


Queen Bed


Shared Bathroom


All meals included


$5000 cad per Couple


Retreat Itinerary

Join us in beautiful Ladysmith, British Columbia, from October 22-25 for an unforgettable experience at the Connected Couples Retreat. Below, you’ll find a tentative daily itinerary that outlines the transformative activities planned for each day. Please note that the schedule will be finalized closer to the retreat date.

  • 5PM: Arrive for Appetizers and Welcome Circle

    7PM: Farm to Table Dinner

    8PM: Unwind and Relax at your luxury beachfront home for the weekend

  • 9:00AM: Gentle morning movement

    9:30AM: Fresh homemade breakfast

    10AM: Morning Session: self-esteem and boundaries (lecture, small group exercises and personal reflection)

    1PM: Lunch Break

    2PM: Afternoon Session: Loosing strategies, wise adult and adaptive child
    (lecture, small group exercises and personal reflection)

    5:30PM: Free Time

    7PM: Farm To Table Dinner

    8PM: Free Time

  • 9:00AM: Gentle morning movement

    9:30AM: Fresh homemade breakfast

    10AM: Morning Session: Healthy listening & responding skills to improve communication & de-escalate conflict.
    (lecture, small group exercises and personal reflection)

    1PM: Lunch Break

    2PM: Afternoon Session: Getting what you want (lecture, small group exercises and reflection)

    5:30PM: Free Time

    7PM: Farm To Table Dinner

    8PM: Free Time

  • 9:00AM: Gentle morning movement

    9:30AM: Fresh homemade breakfast

    10AM: Skill building: Winning strategies to nurture your connection and cherish your partner

    12PM: Lunch Break

    12:45PM: Skill building and practicing

    2PM: Closing Circle

    3PM: Check Out

Intimacy isn’t something you have, it’s something you do. And you can learn to do it better.”

-Terry Real
Relational Life Therapy® Founder

Frequently Asked Questions

  • The retreat will be held at a luxurious private oceanfront private home in Ladysmith, Vancouver Island, V9G 1K7, BC. Canada.

  • Yes there’s both off street and on street parking available for you.

  • We can accommodate dietary restrictions, including food allergies and sensitivities. Our chef is dedicated to providing a delightful culinary experience and will happily accommodate your dietary needs.

    Please let Luana know in advance about any food restrictions. Once registered, Luana will reach out via email to discuss your dietary preferences and restrictions in detail. This way, you can rest assured knowing that your needs will be met during your upcoming retreat. Your comfort and satisfaction are our top priorities.

  • We can accommodate dietary restrictions, including food allergies and sensitivities. Our chef is dedicated to providing a delightful culinary experience and will happily accommodate your dietary needs.

    Please let Luana know in advance about any food restrictions. Once registered, Luana will reach out via email to discuss your dietary preferences and restrictions in detail. This way, you can rest assured knowing that your needs will be met during your upcoming retreat. Your comfort and satisfaction are our top priorities.

  • We understand that some partners may feel hesitant about attending the retreat. It's completely normal to have reservations. The retreat is designed to create a safe and welcoming environment for all couples, where both partners can feel comfortable, supported and step out of their comfort zones to learn new relational skills.

    To help alleviate any concerns, we encourage you to have an open conversation with Luana. You can book a free, no-commitment discovery call here to discuss any questions or apprehensions. Luana is here to support you both as you consider this transformative experience together!

  • The total cost of the retreat ranges from $5,000 to $6,000 Canadian dollars, depending on the room selection. This price includes accommodations, meals, and all activities during the retreat. The only expense not included is transportation to and from the retreat location.

  • Yes, payment plans are available to make it easier for you to join us at the retreat. However, please note that the full amount of the retreat is due before the start date. Payment plans can be set up by reaching out to Luana at the luanarose@gmail.com.

  • Due to the luxurious nature of this retreat and the fact that all costs are paid upfront by the facilitator, there are no refunds once registered. We encourage you to carefully consider your commitment before securing your spot. Your understanding of this policy helps us maintain the high-quality experience that our participants expect and deserve. Thank you for your understanding!

  • The cost of the retreat includes:

    - Expert Coaching: Personalized guidance and support from your experienced facilitator.

    - Luxury Accommodations: Stay in a beautiful, private room with stunning oceanfront or garden views.

    - All Meals: Enjoy delicious, farm-to-table meals throughout your stay.

    - Food Sensitivity/Allergy Accommodations: Our chef will accommodate any dietary restrictions.

    - Beachfront Access: Direct access to the beach for relaxation and enjoyment.

    - Hot Tub: Enjoy the hot tub for a relaxing experience.

    - Parking: Convenient parking available on-site.

    Everything is designed to ensure a luxurious and transformative experience!

  • No, transportation to and from the retreat venue is not included.

    However, our venue is conveniently located just 1.5 hours from Victoria and 30 minutes from Nanaimo.

    ✈️ If you're coming from off-island and flying in, the venue is a quick 15-minute taxi or Uber ride from Nanaimo Airport.

    ⛴️ You can also reach Vancouver Island's main hubs (Nanaimo or Victoria) via BC Ferries.

    Please reach out to Luana if you have questions about planning your transportation. theluanarose@gmail.com

  • Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is Terry Real’s radical approach to couples therapy that breaks many of the rules of traditional couples therapy.

    Notably, RLT emphasizes the importance of people learning the ongoing skills they need to nurture and cherish their relationships long after their time in therapy is over. It’s these core skills you will learn at the Connected Couples Retreat to help you rekindle meaningful relationships and keep the spark alive.

  • The venue is located just steps from the beach and includes a hot tub and private beach access.

  • Are we going to be airing our dirty laundry to strangers?

    This couples retreat is not group or couples therapy; rather, it’s an educational retreat designed to help you learn a new paradigm for relating.

    The primary focus is on acquiring essential skills for relationality and understanding how you personally show up in your relationship. You have the freedom to share as little or as much as you wish about yourself and your personal relational experiences.

  • The 4 day retreat is appropriate for all couples-from new relationships to couples married for many many years. The only thing we ask is that you both come committed to being open minded to doing the work at the retreat.

  • Is there any follow-up support after the retreat?

    There’s no specific follow-up support after the retreat. However, participants have the option to engage in private coaching sessions with Luana if they wish to continue their relational growth journey.
    Additionally, you’ll be invited to join the next retreat in 2027, where you can reconnect and continue building on the skills learned during this retreat.

  • Can I attend this retreat alone, or does my partner need to come?

    No, this is a couples retreat, and participation is designed specifically for couples. The retreat focuses on enhancing the relationship between partners, so both individuals are required to attend together. This collaborative experience is essential for fostering connection and growth as a couple.

  • Luana loves questions. Don’t hesitate to reach out to her via email at theluanarose@gmail.com

    Or Schedule a Discovery Call to chat face to face.

We've tried the best of the best in marriage counselling and even sat with the founders of highly reputable therapy approaches and they haven't got us the results we've gotten with Luana. One reason it's different is because she includes our bodies and adaptive knee-jerk responses which those other modalities leave out.


~ Cindy and Phil. Florida

Meet Your Facilitator

Luana Rose,  SEP® RLT®

Luana is a certified Relational Life Coach and Somatic Experiencing Expert dedicated to transforming relationships. With experience in over 40 countries, she’s guided countless couples and individuals in overcoming past trauma and healing relationship issues. Luana understands relationship struggles firsthand and believes that most couples simply need the education and tools to better care for themselves, their partners and families.

Since discovering Terry Real's work, Luana has experienced a profound transformation in their life and is happily partnered, realizing it was the missing piece in her personal and professional life. Inspired by the frequent requests for couples therapists who are also somatically trained, Luana pursued full certification in Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy (RLT). In her private practice and weekend intensives for couples, she’s found RLT to be an incredibly effective approach—not only for healing relationships but also for helping couples thrive with modern, results driven tools.

Ready to Transform Your Relationship?

If you’re feeling uncertain or have questions about the retreat, don’t hesitate to book a free discovery call with Luana. This is a no-pressure opportunity to ask any questions and learn more about how the retreat can help you and your partner create a lasting, fulfilling relationship.

"We've been married for 23 years and have done a lot of work on our marriage, but we kept running into the same painful patterns. We appreciated Luana's somatic body and mind approach, especially since I often felt dysregulated during fights with my husband and couldn't think straight. What used to take us a whole day to discuss and reconnect now takes less than 20 minutes after one of us has been triggered. Luana has been pivotal in helping us repair and come back together much more quickly, saving us time, struggle, and misunderstanding. We used to dread weekends, but now we're actually enjoying our time together!"
~ Tara and Mike. Oregon

"We came into this workshop on the tail end of a fight that lasted a week long. We were looking for help that would reveal each of our roles in our dynamic when it gets nasty. And ultimately tools to change our reactivity. Luana has this gift of holding you in compassion, acceptance and telling you like it is even when it’s hard to hear the behaviour your doing it creating problems in your marriage. "
~ Lisa and Augusto. Victoria

Connected Couples Retreat LadySmith, BC. Canada

October 22-25 2026

All Meals and Accommodation Are Included

Thursday evening, All day Friday, Saturday & Sunday.

Specific location and Details on request.

Thursday 5pm-8pm
Friday-Saturday 9am-7pm
Sunday 9am-3pm

*breakfast, lunch, dinner and snack breaks throughout